I had the honor of reading a draft of this book in November of 2018 at a time when I was going through a transitory moment of my own. When I got to the “I Got It” chapter (because it was just a chapter back then), a lot of things started to make sense all of a sudden. I had been trying to change my circumstances for years, but now I saw that before I could change my circumstances, I had to change the way that I related to the world around me. This book is written in the language that we, as unapologetically ambitious women, understand and forces you to do the uncomfortable work necessary to be, and more importantly feel, successful. I will be eternally grateful to Elayne for putting words to a concept I didn’t understand and will be recommending this book to every woman who’s still too afraid to let others support her. “