I help unapologetically ambitious women embrace support as the key to success and fulfillment so they can stress less and thrive more.
I help unapologetically ambitious women embrace support as the key to success and fulfillment so they can stress less and thrive more.
Feeling stuck?
It’s time to get over “I Got It” syndrome and embrace support!
Trust me, I didn’t always know the importance of support.
I had to learn the hard way that having it all doesn’t mean doing it all alone. As an ambitious woman, I viewed asking for and accepting support as a sign of weakness, incompetence, or failure. This ultimately resulted in anxiety and depression – even in the midst of other successes. When I shifted my mindset about support and learned how to make empowered asks, my life changed and my career thrived!
Now, I shift mindsets about the power of support for high-achieving, ambitious women in organizations and help them to…
Overcome “I Got It” Syndrome™ and make meaningful connections
Utilize my H.E.L.P.™ framework for support and success
Adopt my 5 Rs of Making Empowered Asks™
Learn how to stop playing Superwoman and get support..
Too many ambitious women suffer from what Elayne calls “I Got It!” Syndrome™ as they struggle to accomplish their goals and their ever-growing to-do list on their own. That mindset often leads to stress, anxiety and feeling stuck.
If you’re an unapologetically ambitious and high-achieving woman, Elayne is cheering you on — but she’s also encouraging you to recognize how imperative it is that you stop struggling to do it all alone and get support. Otherwise you will never be truly fulfilled personally or professionally.
In her book, Get Over “I Got It” (HarperCollins Leadership), you’ll get real-world, actionable advice and exercises at the end of each chapter to help you build a solid network, enroll others in your vision and get the support you deserve.
Praise for Get Over “I Got It”
Elayne’s tagline “Support is Sexy” is now a phrase I and many other ambitious women say to remind ourselves that we don’t have to do it alone. Reading her new book “Get Over I Got It” is like having a friend in your head who is there to remind you that even greater things are possible when you are in it together! I was impressed with Elayne’s ability to address “I got it syndrome” from multiple angles and with step by step call outs for letting go and leveling up. As Elayne says: “even Oprah has Gayle.” Her book has my heartfelt recommendation!
“This delightful book, written by a retired superwoman herself is a pot of gold for any ambitious, go-getter woman ready to finally retire her cape, do less and experience the abundance she deserves. Elayne lights the way with her wisdom filled stories, encouragement, directives and interviews with professionals. Read this book – and learn from the best!”
“This is the book I’ve been waiting for. As a founder of a startup – and as a woman – I crave business books that speak to my experience and energetics. In Get Over ‘I Got it’, Elayne Fluker taps into the core essence of female power to not only unlock our potential but to know that we don’t have to do it all alone. A must-read for women starting out, or well within their career.”
‘I Got It!’ cuts support off at the pass. It tells the Universe to keep it movin’, when all it ever wants to do is show up for you.”
—Elayne Fluker, from Get Over “I Got It”
Support is Sexy Podcast with Elayne Fluker
Hear 500+ inspiring women share how H.E.L.P.™ changed their lives, and learn how it can transform your life, too
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Sis, Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: Dr. Adia Gooden Tells You Why
In this episode of Support is Sexy, Elayne Fluker invites Dr. Adia Gooden, a licensed clinical psychologist who firmly believes that there is nothing wrong in asking for help, especially as a Black woman. Dr. Adia talks about how growing up with clinical psychologists...
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How to Reinvent and Adopt a Manifestation Mindset with Borrowed Wisdom Co-Founder Sharon Ufberg
In this episode of Support is Sexy, Elayne Fluker invites Sharon Ufberg, the co-founder of Borrowed Wisdom which coaches women who are trying to find a new meaning in their life and make their dreams reality. Sharon talks about how she has managed to become the...
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How to Trust Your Head, Heart and Hoohah When It Comes to Love with Relationship Coach Laurie Gerber
Our guest, Laurie Gerber, tells our host, Elayne Fluker, about how she fell in love with coaching and how she began the journey. She educates people to tell the truth and fall in love with themselves. In the episode, she tells Elayne what people misunderstand about...
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5 Things You Need to Know about Cybersecurity with Jessica Robinson of Purepoint International
In this episode of Support is Sexy, Elayne Fluker invites Jessica Robinson, the Founder & CEO of PurePoint International whose main purpose is to support leaders to create inner security, so they can create outer security for their clients. In this episode,...
