I teach high-performing women how to embrace support and make an Empowered Ask™ so they can stress less and thrive more at work and in life.
I teach high-performing women how to embrace support and make an Empowered Ask™ so they can stress less and thrive more at work and in life.
Feeling stuck?
It’s time to get over “I Got It” syndrome and embrace support!
Trust me, I didn’t always know the importance of support.
I had to learn the hard way that having it all doesn’t mean doing it all alone. As an ambitious woman, I viewed asking for and accepting support as a sign of weakness, incompetence, or failure. This ultimately resulted in anxiety and depression – even in the midst of other successes. When I shifted my mindset about support and learned how to make an Empowered Ask™, my life changed and my career thrived!
Now, as an executive coach, speaker and personal development consultant, I shift mindsets of high-performing women in organizations around the power of support and help them…
Improve executive presence and build confidence
Cultivate teamwork and inspire innovation
Resolve conflict and enhance communication
Learn how to stop playing Superwoman and get support..
Too many ambitious women suffer from what Elayne calls “I Got It!” Syndrome™ as they struggle to accomplish their goals and their ever-growing to-do list on their own. That mindset often leads to stress, anxiety and feeling stuck.
If you’re an unapologetically ambitious and high-performing woman, Elayne is cheering you on — but she’s also encouraging you to recognize how imperative it is that you stop struggling to do it all alone and get support. Otherwise you will never be truly fulfilled personally or professionally.
In her book, Get Over “I Got It” (HarperCollins Leadership), you’ll get real-world, actionable advice and exercises at the end of each chapter to help you build a solid network, enroll others in your vision and get the support you deserve.
Praise for Get Over “I Got It”
Elayne’s tagline “Support is Sexy” is now a phrase I and many other ambitious women say to remind ourselves that we don’t have to do it alone. Reading her new book “Get Over I Got It” is like having a friend in your head who is there to remind you that even greater things are possible when you are in it together! I was impressed with Elayne’s ability to address “I got it syndrome” from multiple angles and with step by step call outs for letting go and leveling up. As Elayne says: “even Oprah has Gayle.” Her book has my heartfelt recommendation!
“This delightful book, written by a retired superwoman herself is a pot of gold for any ambitious, go-getter woman ready to finally retire her cape, do less and experience the abundance she deserves. Elayne lights the way with her wisdom filled stories, encouragement, directives and interviews with professionals. Read this book – and learn from the best!”
“This is the book I’ve been waiting for. As a founder of a startup – and as a woman – I crave business books that speak to my experience and energetics. In Get Over ‘I Got it’, Elayne Fluker taps into the core essence of female power to not only unlock our potential but to know that we don’t have to do it all alone. A must-read for women starting out, or well within their career.”
‘I Got It!’ cuts support off at the pass. It tells the Universe to keep it movin’, when all it ever wants to do is show up for you.”
—Elayne Fluker, from Get Over “I Got It”
Support is Sexy Podcast with Elayne Fluker
Hear 500+ inspiring women share how H.E.L.P.™ changed their lives, and learn how it can transform your life, too
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Having it all doesn’t mean doing it all alone
Sis, Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: Dr. Adia Gooden Tells You Why
Elayne Fluker speaks to Dr. Adia Gooden, a licensed clinical psychologist who firmly believes that there is nothing wrong in asking for help, especially as a Black woman.
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Ask empowering questions
How to Follow Your Passion with Black in Tulum Founder Nubia Younge
We talk to Black in Travel founder Nubia Younge and find out about her journey, her mission, and what’s next.
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Let go of the how
How to Trust Your Head, Heart and Hoohah When It Comes to Love with Relationship Coach Laurie Gerber
Laurie Gerber tells Elayne Fluker about how she fell in love with coaching and how she began the journey.
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Believe in the possibilities
806: Celebrity Trainer Mark Jenkins Shares Insider Secrets for Physical and Mental Fitness
I dive in with my special guest and good friend Mark Jenkins, who has more than 40,000 of fitness training, has worked with celebrities, and how he specializes in the transformation not just of your body, but of your mind.